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O casal moderno conseguiu absorver as mudanças que o puseram em xeque?
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Os fundamentos da modernidade continuam vigentes nos novos semblantes do casal?
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Bienestares y malestares del amor en la pareja moderna
Resumen: &OFTUFBSUÓDVMPDPOGPSNBUPEFQSFHVOUBTZSFTQVFTUBTMPTBVUPSFTTF QSPQPOFOFTUVEJBSMPTCJFOFTUBSFTZNBMFTUBSFTEFMBNPSFOFMWÓODVMPRVFTFFTUB CMFDFFOMBQBSFKBNPEFSOB1PSMPDPNQMFKPEFMUFNBJOJDJBMNFOUFTFIBDFODPO TJEFSBDJPOFTHFOFSBMFTBDFSDBEFTVDPODFQDJØOEFWÓODVMPMBQBSFKBNPEFSOBZFM BNPSOPDJPOFTRVFDPOTJEFSBOOFDFTBSJBTQBSBQPEFSBCPSEBSFMUFNBQSPQVFTUP Palabras clave:QBSFKBWÓODVMPNBMFTUBSQTJDPBOÈMJTJTWJODVMBOUF
Well-being and malaise of the modern couple’s love
Abstract:*OUIFGPSNPGRVFTUJPOTBOEBOTXFSTUIFBVUIPSTPGUIJTQBQFSBUUFNQUUP TUVEZUIFXFMMCFJOHBOENBMBJTFPGMPWFJOUIFCPOEGPSNFECFUXFFOUIFNPEFSO DPVQMF #FDBVTF PG UIF IJHI DPNQMFYJUZ PG UIF TVCKFDU NBUUFS UIF BVUIPST IBWF TUBSUFEUIJTQBQFSGSPNHFOFSBMDPOTJEFSBUJPOTBCPVUUIFJSDPODFQUJPOPGCPOEJOH NPEFSODPVQMFBOEMPWFTJODFUIFZBSFWJUBMUPUIJTEJTDVTTJPO
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Le bien-être et le mal-être de l’amour chez le couple moderne
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